The travails of Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh in her marital journey has left Nigerians with a few life lessons.
Oladunni Churchill and Tonto Dikeh
From allegations of adultery to fraud, battery to verbal torments,
physical violence, humiliation, mental torture and the rest, the
high-profile marriage of Tonto Dikeh to super-rich lover, Olakunle
Oladunni Churchill was brought to its knees.
Economium Nigeria lists a couple of marital lessons that could
guide the younger generation in making that bold decision about
marriage.
See the points as enumerated below:
1. Date and marry your type or someone that can improve your life. Someone deep and grounded and legitimate.
2. You can always walk away from a destructive
relationship because the signs are always there. Long before the union
is solemnised, you can tell a partner who will destroy property, beat
you black and blue or philander.
3. Never snatch anyone’s partner, events have a
way of repaying us in our own coin. By jeopardising the peace in a
union, you also compromise your own future of an enduring matrimony.
4. Take time to investigate, yes investigate, your
partner. And never rush into marriage. Momentary advantages would
easily disappear as tomorrow rolls in.
5. Always fight fair and square, never embellish
events because the truth is never hidden. State the truth and never
colour scenarios to your advantage. Witnesses can come up anytime.
6. Keep your union, everything about your
relationship, away from the public on social media. We don’t really
care. Whatever enjoyment you are rolling in is not our business.
7. Never hit your partner. Avoid the predicament
of Lekan Shonde and Akolade Arowolo. You can never tell what the abuse
would lead to.
8. You can always walk away before you are deaf in one ear and left with broken ribs.
9. Time heals most wounds, so don’t destroy the
future of your children by burning bridges. It is the end of your
relationship, and has nothing to do with your children.
10. Beauty and a comfortable future are only parts
of the equation. There is always someone more beautiful and richer.
There are reversal of fortunes and a future full of riches. Nothing is
permanent.
11. The future is always full of promises. This is
just a chapter, or at most a volume, of your life. There are many more
chapters and volumes you can plan painstakingly and work on
conscientiously.
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