Pastor
Chinyere had claimed that his adopted son who is autistic has troubles
controlling his s£xual urge among other children in the house.

A Catholic priest has advised Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, founder and
pastor of Omega Power Ministries (OPM), that marrying off his adopted
autistic son to manage his uncontrollable s*xual urges is not the
solution.
Pastor Chinyere had claimed that his adopted son who is autistic has
troubles controlling his s£xual urge among other children in the house.
He claimed the boy gets an erection all the time and he does not want
the boy to impregnate one of the children in the home. As a result, he
is seeking an older woman he would pay to marry the autistic son and
help curb his s£xual urges.
Responding, Catholic Priest Father Prince Chidi Philip told Pastor
Chibuzor that his autistic son needs protection, not marriage.
The Priest wrote: From one priest to another servant of Christ
Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, I write to you both as a minister of the
same Master Jesus, and as someone deeply involved in caring for people
with mental challenges.
"When I watched your video and read the follow-up post,
especially the suggestion to “married off” this young man through a
monetized marriage arrangement to manage his s£xual urges, I was not
only disturbed, I was deeply troubled in my spirit. What is being
proposed is not just inappropriate; it is a serious violation of both
the dignity of the human person and the sacredness of the Sacrament of
Marriage.
"Marriage is not a tool for managing mental challenges or
biological impulses. It is a covenant, a vocation, a sacred union rooted
in love, responsibility, and mutual consent. To reduce it to a mere
solution for s£xual urges, especially in the case of someone who is
mentally vulnerable, is to strip it of its divine meaning and to exploit
the weakness of another human being.
"My dear Pastor, if there is a lack of adequate knowledge or
formation in caring for individuals with mental challenges, then
humility demands a responsible decision: either seek proper training,
collaborate with professionals, or entrust such individuals to
institutions better equipped for their care. But to propose marriage as a
“solution” reveals not just a gap in understanding, but a dangerous
one.
"What this young man is experiencing is not strange. It is part
of human nature. Every man, regardless of mental condition, experiences
natural s£xual urges. But the response to such realities must be guided
by wisdom, ethics, and proper therapeutic approaches, not impulsive or
exploitative decisions disguised as solutions. There are established
methods of behavioral therapy, structured environments, medical
guidance, and what we call s£xual rehabilitation, all aimed at helping
individuals manage such impulses with dignity and care.
"Let me make this even more direct: in our own community, we care
for a child with autism who also shows signs of same-s£x attraction.
Following your logic, should we now begin to look for a man to “marry
him off” in order to regulate his urges? Does that sound like care or
like abandonment of responsibility?
"I also found it deeply inappropriate and disturbing that your
post went into explicit and unnecessary descriptions of this young man’s
s£xual condition. Such details do not educate; they dehumanize. They
expose rather than protect. At a point, I genuinely hoped your account
had been compromised, because it is difficult to reconcile such content
with the responsibility of someone entrusted with vulnerable lives.
"Those who are mentally challenged are not burdens to be managed
or problems to be solved. They are persons to be loved, protected,
accompanied, and dignified. They need fathers, not opportunists;
shepherds, not strategists of convenience.
"Marrying off a vulnerable individual under such circumstances is
not just ethically wrong, it is spiritually irresponsible. It borders
on exploitation masked as charity.
"Please, protect these children. Be a true spiritual father to
them. Walk with them patiently, even when it is difficult. And if you
have reached your limit, there is no shame in acknowledging that and
seeking better-equipped hands. What is unacceptable is turning their
vulnerability into an experiment.
"Let us not confuse visibility with impact, or popularity with
truth. Not everything that trends is right, and not everything that
draws attention is worthy of imitation. This is not an attack, it is a
call to conscience."

