Looking for a way to make this Valentine's Day exceptional for your partner? Here are eleven naughty things to do.
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According to this article posted on Dailystar,
this valentine period can be the perfect opportunity to up your sexual
game to another new level and leave your partner satisfied.
Here are some naughty advice to get you in the mood for love from
Megan Barnett, pleasure expert for online sex toy retailer Jo Divine.
1. Start the discussion
Communication is a really important part of any relationship,
especially when it comes to sex. You may have found yourselves in a sex
rut because you’ve fallen into something of a routine, so it’s time to
be honest with each other about what you both really want in bed.
It can be a bit daunting, and you may be concerned of hurting your
partner’s feelings, so why not write down things you’d like to try
sexually or what isn’t working for you anymore in bed first prior to
your discussion.
2. Switch things up
If you or your partner is more dominant in the bedroom, why not try
a little role reversal? It can be really kinky if someone who is
typically more submissive takes control for a change.
If you’re not comfortable using bondage equipment, don’t worry.
You can express your dominant side in more vanilla ways, such as
going on top, dictating which positions you’re going to try during sex
and where you want to be touched by your partner.
3. Be open minded
Whether you want to mix things up by trying new positions or
experiment with sex toys and bondage, it’s important to keep an open
mind.
If your partner has some suggestions to bring to the bedroom,
embrace them. However, if something really doesn’t sound to your taste,
don’t be dismissive: be gentle with your reproach.
Instead of being negative, be more tactful and research for
alternatives together. Remember, if it was hard for you to express your
desires it will probably be equally difficult for your partner to have
done the same, so treat the conversation delicately.
4. Write down pleasurable prompts
Once you’ve discussed trying new things with your partner, don’t feel pressured to start straight away.
A great way to start your kinky play is to write down your desires
on bits of paper, fold them up and drop them in a bowl, picking out a
suggestion on a day you’re likely to have sex or prior to foreplay to
rev things up. If you colour code the paper, you can alternate between
trying out one of your own or your partner’s fantasies.
5. Keep things fun
Role play is a great way to experiment with your partner as it
sprinkles just a hint of spice into your sex play without being too
overwhelming.
You may feel nervous at first, but don’t put too much pressure on
yourself or your partner as, ultimately, neither of you will enjoy it.
Keep things light and playful, and it will soon get easier over time the
more you experiment.
Similarly, if you’re looking to experiment with bondage play, you
don’t need to jump straight into the deep end. Start off with some silk
restraints or perhaps even a leather blindfold to ease you in.
6. Don’t give up
Think back to your first ever sexual experience: was it the best sex that you’ve ever had? Probably not.
If you and your partner are experimenting with something entirely
new, such as bondage, it’s more than likely that it won’t be perfect the
first time. However, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll never
have a good S&M experience.
Be open minded with your experimentation, trying a range of activities and positions until you find the perfect fit.
7. Relish in those feel good vibes
Sex toys have come a long way over the years, and there are lots of toys on the market you can use together.
The Rocks Off Duet is a fabulous remote controlled vibrating egg
that can be incorporated into your sex play. The egg massages the walls
of her vagina while her partner can control the vibrations to add to the
excitement. The remote also doubles up as a clitoral stimulator, so she
could put on a kinky show for her partner too!
Alternatively, why not treat each other and invest in some His and Hers products you can use during sex or mutual masturbation.
The We Vibe Touch is a fantastic clitoral stimulator that is
discreet enough in size to slip between the two of you during sex! With
an ergonomic handle, the Touch will also feel amazing when traced along
the shaft of his penis too.
8. Get wet
A really simple way to give you sex life a boost is using a good
lubricant. Vaginal dryness can affect women at any age, and natural
lubrication can vary depending on the menstrual cycle. Using a good
lubricant such as Yes Organic, which nourishes the skin, is a great way
to enhance your sexual pleasure.
Lubricant is a must-have if your male partner is well-endowed, but
it can make sex feel better for any couple. It can even make sex last
for longer as the slippery sensations feel really good for both men and
women.
If you’re experimenting with anal play, lubricant is essential as
the anus is not a self-lubricating organ, so use lots of lube and take
things slowly. Yes But is a water based lubricant specifically
formulated for anal play, and is extremely nourishing to the tissues of
your delicate skin.
9. Focus on fabulous foreplay
Remember, good sex isn’t limited to penetration. Taking your time during foreplay is a great way to reconnect with your partner.
Foreplay can be a real turn on for many people because of how their
partner is reacting to their touch, but you don’t have to be over the
top (unless you can’t control it). Make some noise, and if something
feels really good, give your partner some words of encouragement - it
will do wonders for their self-esteem too.
10. Stay in the moment
It’s really easy to tell someone not to be self-conscious during sex, but in practice it can be quite hard.
A simple way to overcome any hang-ups you might have is by focusing
on your partner, what they are doing to your body and how they are
reacting. If they’re aroused by you and enjoying having sex with you,
not only will this give your esteem a boost but it will help you to
enjoy sex more.
What’s more, focusing on the pleasurable sensations rather than
your orgasm means you’re more likely to achieve one. One very common
reason why people fail to have an orgasm is because they are fixated on
it instead of enjoying the pleasures of sex, so be in the moment with
your partner.
11. Shake up your schedule
Life has a habit of getting in the way of what we want to do for
fun, and there is no harm in scheduling time for sex with your partner.
However, if you typically have a lazy morning romp on the weekend, why
not have sex in the afternoon instead?
If you’re able to, have sex in a different room of the house rather
than your bedroom, or if you’re feeling brave try getting frisky al
fresco.
Exploring new ways to enjoy sex is a great way to give your
relationship the fun boost it deserves, so get creative and indulge your
pleasure senses together.
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