If
you are in a relationship, this is the time for you to wake up and read
these relationship behaviours. If your man is guilty of these, you need
to rethink immediately before it is too late.
If your boyfriend exhibits these behaviours, you need to do the needful and run for your life before it is too late.
1. He abuses you emotionally or verbally: He
humiliates you, puts you down and makes fun of you in front of other
people. He is constantly threatening, bullying, and criticizing you
without caring how it makes you feel. He makes you feel like you need
permission to make decisions or go out and the list goes on. This can
destroy your self-esteem, causing you to be depressed and also give up
on yourself. No one should make you feel like you’re worth nothing. The
earlier you realize you deserve better and gather the courage to leave
the relationship, the better for you.
2. He physically abuses you: Many women have lost
their lives, others have been deformed and many others are still living
with the scars from an abusive relationship. Breaking may be more
complicated than it seems but, for your sake, it’s the best thing you
can do for yourself. You shouldn’t be anybody’s punching bag. You
deserve better. It’s time to stop rationalizing his behavior as “normal”
and move on.
3. He isolates you from your friends and family:
If he is trying to isolate you from your loved ones, you should be
careful. Any man who tries to isolate you from the people who truly love
and care about you should not be trusted. It’s either he knows that
your friends and family will try to make you see good reasons why you
should not be with him or point out those dangerous flaws of his and he
doesn’t want that. So, he tries to keep you far away from them. You
should not have to sever relationships with your loved ones because of
your partner. Your boyfriend must recognize that you are a person
outside of the relationship.
4. Impossibly high standards and unrealistic expectations:
Some boyfriends can be so delusional. They have the image of what they
want their partner to be in their head and they expect you to be that
way. They try to change you into something you’re not. You shouldn’t
have to deal with someone who doesn’t allow you the luxury of being
yourself. If you have to constantly keep pretending to be who you’re not
and doing things you’re not comfortable with just to please your
boyfriend then maybe, you shouldn’t be with him because when you get
tired of pretending and start being you, there will be trouble.
5. Extreme possessive, obsessive behavior: When
obsession is confused for love, relationships can become dangerous. At
the beginning of the relationships, it’s natural for you to be the sole
focus of your partner’s thoughts. You want to spend time together and
are always thinking of each other when you’re not. It’s okay for him to
be interested in your day-to-day activities but when it seems a little
much, it may be cause for concern. If he becomes over-committed to
knowing your whereabouts, who were you with, what time you went out,
makes you feel guilty about going out, checks up on you excessively, he
may be exhibiting overly-possessive behaviors and you may be putting
yourself in a dangerous situation.
6. Disrespect: Be with someone who shows you that
necessary degree of respect. If you realize that your boyfriend doesn’t
respect you at all, it’s time to step back and ask yourself whether or
not you should remain in a relationship where you’re not shown any
respect. Relationships aren’t always easy, and you and your partner
won’t always get along but, should however, always respect each other.
7. He can never apologise: If you’re boyfriend
never apologises when he’s wrong, you need to be concerned. This may not
seem like a big deal but goes to show that he thinks he’s superior in
the relationship. If you’re wrong, you should be able to say you’re
sorry, what’s the big deal. Sometimes, it’s hard to admit our mistakes
and say sorry. But, a man who never apologises or sees any reason why he
should apologise to a woman should be ‘feared’.
It’s time to stop rationalizing certain behavior as “normal”. Learn
how to recognize when its’ time to end the relationship and move on
with your life before it’s too late.
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