To be frank, all of us need at least (and
of course at most) one companion,
someone we
could fall back on in times of loneliness.
The guys do need this, and so do girls
too! So Let’s discuss 10 ways to meet a
nice date on campus.
The problem is how can someone (a girl
in this case) get a nice guy who will love,
cherish, admire, encourage, protect,
educate, assist her, etc?
Below is 10 salient points as a suggestion
and guide to getting a “Mr. Nice” for
yourself. Getting a boyfriend is simpler
than it seems to most people, just follow
the guide:-
1. Make sure he is single: Falling in love
with a guy/girl who has a lover wouldn’t
produce any result. To this fact, it is
pointless hooking up to a guy/girl who is
happily in a relationship. Don’t forget
that break up is a two-way progress.
Make sure the guy/girl in question is not
undergoing a break up. He/she might
just be on rebound!
2. Take the first step : It is pointless
delaying when you meet a guy/girl who
has somethings in common with you.
Who doesn’t like good thing? The more
you wait, others might outsmart you. I
disagree with the fact that only the
“boys” should ask a girl; out. Any one
can do the asking; boy or girl. So,if you
love reading..get the person you have
interest in to join you to the Library. If
you love games, go with him/her to the
parks. If you love shopping, why no
shop together? “No dullin”.
3. Make it a gradual process : Do not crowd
your new friends, some people hate that.
For whatever reason, no matter how
much you seem to be attracted to them,
take it slow. Go out with him or her
every once in a while, then more often
later with time. Don’t make it an every
day thing. Usually, if you hit it off really
well and have a lot of fun together, the
friendship will tend to automatically
grow into more frequent visits. Just try
not to be that girl/guy who looks too
desperate.
4. Put up a smiling face always : Whenever
he/she looks at you, smile no doubt, he/
she will do it right back. Human beings
respond faster to smiles than the
opposite. So each time he/she looks at
your smiling face, something deep
within tells him/her that you are nice
and approachable. A nice smile with an
accidental eye contact can attract a
surprising and life-changing “hello”. I
hope you got me right?
5. Be Approachable: Some people naturally
have problem meeting/approaching
guys/girls. To simplify this for every
guy/girl that may come your way, build
bridges, not walls around yourself.It’s
imperative that you be unique because
you’ll stand out more. Do nothing at
first but lock eyes, smile, and turn your
attention elsewhere. Be disciplined and
wise enough to know that if you give in
to your physical attraction and pursue
him/her before he’s/she’s had to invest
any amount of time getting to know you,
then you lose.
6. Engage him/her into talk: A good use of
your language and communication skills
from now henceforth can make all the
difference in your relationship life. New
friends won’t know you are great unless
you arouse their curiosity. Leave him
with few words and know that it’s
ineffective to blab on about every detail
about yourself because you’ll leave him
with nothing to be curious about!
7. Keep going to him/her : He/she needs to
be convinced that you are what you
claim to be. One visit is not enough, do
it and keep doing it. Time will tell, no
mater how hard it seems.
8. Find out what he/she needs: It would
unlucky to chase after this guy/girl just
to find out he/she likes somebody else
already. Make sure that he/she either
likes no one (because then you have a
chance to make him/her fall for you) or
that he/she likes you, which he/she
probably won’t tell you,( for the time
being just to play hard to get ).
9. Show him/her why you are good for him :
Guys tend to like girls who are very
feminine, but chill. Find out what he
likes and do it with him. Spot
similarities and things you share in
common. It tells more on your
compatibility.
10. Others things you need to know : The few
lines above describe my tactics. I used
these ideas earlier, and for sure it
worked. Reveal things about yourself
while telling an anecdotal story. Do not
harshly criticize him/her. If he/she
makes a bad joke, don giggle much
about his flaws, be polite in correcting
him/her. And lastly, though not the
least, be yourself.
Most importantly, when you finally get a
good guy/girl, don’t cheat on him or her
by dating other guys or girls. It pays to
keep the trust.
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