Saturday 16 May 2015

My cousin forces himself on me

Dear Bunmi,

From time to time, I spend the holidays with my
mum’s elder sister and I used to get on well with
my cousins. But early last year, I woke to feel the
hand of my eldest cousin under my nightie.

I was so frightened though curious that I pretended
to still be sleeping. After this, he tried to have full
sex with me, but I pushed him off.

Then he started
being very nice to me, introducing me to his friends
and giving me presents. I was having such a good
time that when next he came to the guest room, I let
him have sex with me. He now thinks he could do
that any time he wants but I’ve told him to stop.

Recently, he’s been forcing me to have sex with
him whether I like it or not. I enjoy the sex but I’m
only 16 and he is my first cousin.

How do I make
him stop?

Nkechi, by e-mail.

Dear Nkechi,

What you’re doing is incestuous. First, you are not
at all legally allowed to have any sexual
relationships because of genetic problems it could
bring, if pregnancy occurs. Moreover, you’re too
young to be playing with adult emotions.

You are
having unprotected sex which could either result in
unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted

You have to be firm with your cousin and put an end
to this nonsense.

Threaten you’ll tell his parents or
yours if he doesn’t stop. When next he crawls into
your bed at night, say no and mean it. Leave the
room if need be.

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